First week - Jan 7, 2024
I'm here!! My flight over in business class would have been great if I actually slept for a single second. After a fabulous meal, I was able to lie flat. However, the flight was bumpy. It wasn't like major turbulence, but just a constant shaking. So, I arrived here with zero sleep.
I'm here!! My flight over in business class would have been great if I actually slept for a single second. After a fabulous meal, I was able to lie flat. However, the flight was bumpy. It wasn't like major turbulence, but just a constant shaking. So, I arrived here with zero sleep.
The next morning I came back to the empty apartment to wait for the technician to turn on the power. It was a four-hour window… and at about three hours and 45 minutes all my lights came on. So, I didn't have to be there at all. That afternoon, I was able to venture out and start buying things. I knew I should buy a TV because the Internet and cable was being hooked up the next day. Unfortunately, it was raining and I'm using public transportation. I bought a 43-inch TV and dragged it through the mall and then waited in the rain for my Bolt. I managed to get it up to the apartment by myself and get everything ready for the cable guy to come the next day. Since we don't have any furniture, it's just sitting on its original box on the floor.
The next morning, I was back over here waiting for a partial furniture delivery that included a small bed. They gave me a six-hour window, and came at about the four-hour mark. It took them about 45 minutes to put everything together. I'm pleased with the furniture and how it looks. After they left, I ran back out to get more hangers and other things to continue trying to put things away. While at the store, Maria from RTP texted me and said the cable guy was on his way and he was early. I was thrilled that he was early and so I rushed back home. He told me in his very broken English that it was an easy job. After about 20 minutes, he said he had to go and get a key. I then waited and waited and WAITED. At about 75 minutes later, he finally comes back with his son that he went and picked up at school! I was really beginning to think he wasn't coming back, except that he left all his tools in the apartment. I guess when it's time to pick up your son, you just go. Thankfully, his son spoke more English than he did, and was able to communicate with me. We were able to hook up the Internet and the TV; however, I'm not able to get the "free" HBO Max or Amazon Prime installed. They tried for a couple hours and said that they don't usually help with that part of the installation and it's only the hardware that they install. It's now three days later and it's still not working because every attempt I do to figure it out, it's all in Portuguese and I must run it through translation while opening different links. Then I lose the link that asked for the code, because I'm running the translation in another app. It's not high on my priority list since it seems like there are so many other things that I need to do. I know that this will all be a distant memory probably by next week, but it is a slog.
Unfortunately, I had been unable to stay at the apartment because the gas heat isn't being hooked up until nine days after I arrive. After four nights at the hotel, I checked out yesterday and I'm staying in the apartment. There is no heat nor hot water, but I did go over to El Corte Ingles in Gaia and bought an electric blanket so that I don't freeze overnight. You can see that my nightstand is an upside-down box.
I just sit around in the house in my winter coat with a scarf and can work on my laptop and do other little things in the house. There's not much more I can do here until we get furniture. I know that on the PT Facebook page people recommend not bringing all your stuff because you can buy everything here. What they don't mention is that you still must go purchase everything, and sometimes those things can't be delivered for weeks. Also, bringing items home without a car is very difficult. It's not easy carting everything by yourself in a Bolt.
WEEK TWO
I'm out walking in Parque da Cidade for the first time since arriving. It's my version of lying in the bed and pulling the covers up over my head. That's how I feel at this point with how difficult everything has been. Right now, I have so many outstanding issues that I just want the world to go away. The newest banking issue is that I can't get into the account via the mobile app nor the computer. I can't choose “forgot my PIN” because it's in Portuguese and it still doesn't work even when I translate it. It looks like I may have to take the train down to Ovar to see Sarah at Abanca to straighten out my online banking access. I'm supposed to give her the original copies of our change of address and so maybe it's just worth a trip down there. The problem is that I had tried to pay for some furniture, and two different credit card companies declined payment because they will not accept the Texas ZIP Code for the billing address. So, I chose “bank transfer”, which I thought would be an easy transaction. But with the bank account locked… that was not to be. So now the furniture order that includes a couch, TV stand, and dining chairs has been canceled. I feel like the next emergency is getting some furniture into this house, especially before Robin and Lily arrive. I also know it could be WEEKS to arrive. I'm still waiting on a nightstand I ordered November 27th!
I'm out walking in Parque da Cidade for the first time since arriving. It's my version of lying in the bed and pulling the covers up over my head. That's how I feel at this point with how difficult everything has been. Right now, I have so many outstanding issues that I just want the world to go away. The newest banking issue is that I can't get into the account via the mobile app nor the computer. I can't choose “forgot my PIN” because it's in Portuguese and it still doesn't work even when I translate it. It looks like I may have to take the train down to Ovar to see Sarah at Abanca to straighten out my online banking access. I'm supposed to give her the original copies of our change of address and so maybe it's just worth a trip down there. The problem is that I had tried to pay for some furniture, and two different credit card companies declined payment because they will not accept the Texas ZIP Code for the billing address. So, I chose “bank transfer”, which I thought would be an easy transaction. But with the bank account locked… that was not to be. So now the furniture order that includes a couch, TV stand, and dining chairs has been canceled. I feel like the next emergency is getting some furniture into this house, especially before Robin and Lily arrive. I also know it could be WEEKS to arrive. I'm still waiting on a nightstand I ordered November 27th!
Meanwhile, there are issues getting Lily over here. She was not able to go to her vet appointment yesterday for the USDA paperwork because Dallas had ice and snow, so the vet office canceled the appointment. It's scheduled for tomorrow, but that may not be enough window of time to get the paperwork back. We might have to reschedule Robin's flight. I guess I knew that everything would be hard but, in some ways, I didn't think it would be this hard. I’m calling it, “Everything, Everywhere, All at Once”.
Robin and Lily at DFW airport getting ready to leave. It's been quite a trip regarding the paperwork. The rescheduled vet appointment left us little time to get it back. The vet's office sent off immediately and it was approved within a few hours. We were given the FedEx tracking number, and it looked like it was good to go. However, because of bad weather across the entire US, it was delayed in Champaign, Illinois. On Wednesday afternoon, our contact person at the vet’s office called Robin stating she is very worried about the paperwork arriving on time. The reason for this was she had another client who had been to the office the week before, and their paperwork was STILL stuck in Champaign, Illinois. In fact, they had to go on to Germany without their dog, and the dog was stuck at the Dallas airport. She recommended that we basically start over and resubmit the paperwork and pay the fees again. This time, we would request the Austin or Oklahoma USDA office. This was a good call because Robin was able to get the paperwork on Friday.
WEEK THREE
Well… It's been 48 hours since they arrived. I was so happy to see both come through that arrival gate, but especially Lily because that IS a grueling trip. At that time, however, we did not know how grueling and traumatizing it really was for her. Only when we got to the house did we figure out that the zip ties that Robin applied in Dallas had never been removed as well as the food attached to the crate had never been opened. Poor Lily had to even pee inside the crate. She ended up being in that crate for 18 hours total!! We are furious with Lufthansa. Unbelievable…after all their promises and Robin’s repeated phone calls assuring us that Lily would be fed, walked, and allowed to poop and pee while at the Frankfurt Pet Relocation Center. We have filed a complaint with them. Lily does not seem the same; she suddenly seems very old. It could just be that she is very old, however, we do know she just went through a very difficult experience.
Well… It's been 48 hours since they arrived. I was so happy to see both come through that arrival gate, but especially Lily because that IS a grueling trip. At that time, however, we did not know how grueling and traumatizing it really was for her. Only when we got to the house did we figure out that the zip ties that Robin applied in Dallas had never been removed as well as the food attached to the crate had never been opened. Poor Lily had to even pee inside the crate. She ended up being in that crate for 18 hours total!! We are furious with Lufthansa. Unbelievable…after all their promises and Robin’s repeated phone calls assuring us that Lily would be fed, walked, and allowed to poop and pee while at the Frankfurt Pet Relocation Center. We have filed a complaint with them. Lily does not seem the same; she suddenly seems very old. It could just be that she is very old, however, we do know she just went through a very difficult experience.
Afterwards, we went out to dinner with Naomi and Kerby. Our first choice for a restaurant was fully booked. We will have to learn that you must make a reservation! We ended up sitting outside and freezing our ass off. I didn't even have a coat; I was only wearing a vest. Thankfully, they had blankets and the restaurant was quite good. It was a lovely dinner and we were there for 2+ hours.
ONE MONTH
At about a month (at least for me), the tasks/errands are finally slowing down. I've also been working this whole time, training my replacement. Now we are starting to enjoy very long walks and exploring our new country.
At about a month (at least for me), the tasks/errands are finally slowing down. I've also been working this whole time, training my replacement. Now we are starting to enjoy very long walks and exploring our new country.
I've solved my unable-to-call my Dad issue. He doesn't have a smart phone, nor a computer to do zoom. We found out we can call landline to landline for free after 9pm UK time and on weekends. This is a $5 phone. We couldn't find a phone jack in our apartment, apparently they don't install them anymore and you have to use the back of the router. But at least I can call my dad now!
Even more daring is trying the most famous dish in Portugal - the francesinha. It's layers and layers of calories - bread, cheese, beef, ham, egg, and sausage. As if that weren't enough calories, they throw french fries in the dish and cover it with a beer/tomato sauce. We split one with chicken... but they still stuck a hot dog and ham in it. It will probably be our last one too. Not terrible, but certainly not worth the calories. Since we didn't eat all of it...
Back home while it rains again. We feel like this room is mostly finished. However, we cannot lower or raise the electric blind because it throws the breaker off for the whole apartment. We've even tried unplugging EVERYTHING and it still throws the breaker. It worked the first few weeks, so we are not sure what the problem is now. Supposedly, someone will come and look at it soon.
UPDATE - May 2024
I have been here over four months now and absolutely LOVE it! That first month (especially those first two weeks!!) are a distant memory. We've had our a AIMA appointment (one in Braganza and the other in Braga), received our residency cards (two months apart), had a slew of medical tests that would've never been approved in the US, worked with a medical concierge company (Serenity) to do so, and now have our NISS as well as our Utente numbers. We could not be more thrilled with the move and have started exploring Portugal.
Sadly, we lost our little Lily nine weeks after her traumatic arrival in Portugal. Although she had had high liver enzymes in Portland, we thought it was under control when we left. We will never know if the trauma of the move or all the new foods she had to eat elevated her enzymes to a very high level. We are extremely grateful for the 15 fantastic years that we had with this wonderful little creature!